Psalm 145:15-16 (NIV) The eyes of all look to you, and you give them their food at the proper time. You open your hand and satisfy the desires of every living thing.
Tis the season of immediate gratification. It is easy to get caught up in the madness. Our eyes are filled with visions of new things and wants disguised as needs. I am guilty as charged. Much of my times spent perusing the plethora of advertising preparing to forge out on Thanksgiving evening among the throngs in search of deals and bargains. I will admit the Black Friday tradition is as much about fellowship as much as anything else. However, I wonder if the pursuit of such things keep us from the very thing desired most among people in life. Contentment. Satisfaction. Completion. Fulfillment.
It is hard to pass up really good deals. Like a woman’s version of hunting, it becomes sport. However, there is a dangerous flip side to the giving and receiving of the holiday season. I wonder if maybe before we start shopping, baking, partying, and “celebrating” our Savior’s birth – we should take a moment to focus on what is real worth. To take our eyes off the stuff or stuffing long enough to find the secret of the season. His Name is Jesus Christ. He came not only to save us but to give us a rich and satisfying life. During the month of December, believers will celebrate His Birth. The real invitation of Christmas is to freedom, a future, and forever. What better time for the enemy to try to steal that which Christ has given us.
Immediate gratification comes with a price. Yes. To overstep the boundaries of sowing and reaping the promises of God for our life. In order to abandon such a snare and not fall for such folly, I have decided that we must fix our focus on Jesus before being overtaken by the holiday rush. I must admit that as I have been delving into this stronghold I face of holiday anxiety mixed with a bit of depression, I wonder if the problem is not external but internal instead. Is it my inability or unwillingness to put aside my own insecurities in order to look to the mountain? To see things from God’s Perspective rather than getting sucked into Christmas’ past. The eyes of all who look to the Lord will be provided for. Those who keep their eyes on Jesus will experience full satisfaction. Don’t let the season of celebration be a setback.
Psalm 123:1-2 (NIV) I lift up my eyes to you, to you who sit enthroned in heaven. As the eyes of slaves look to the hand of their master, as the eyes of a female slave look to the hand of her mistress, so our eyes look to the Lord our God, till he shows us his mercy.
Human expectation is a dangerous snare. When I place my expectation in people rather than placing them fully in Christ, I am given to let down. I have chosen a less than perfect source to draw from when the Maker of heaven and earth is my Father. Unmet expectation is a pitfall of faith allowing doubt to trip us up. It is a snare and trap of the enemy to remove our eyes from the unseen and put them on what we can see. The flipside to the human expectation placed in others is to accept responsibility for the expectation of others. It is not our job to bring full satisfaction to another human being. The only good thing to be offered is the Christ in us. To give love, joy and peace to others requires Spirit productivity within us. We must put our expectation and that of others fully in the Sovereign God. Jesus must remain on the throne of our life even as remember his humble birth.
Psalm 121:1-2 (NIV) I lift up my eyes to the mountains—where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.
Are you with me? Overwhelmed as the month of November becomes December. On our foray into the night for Black Friday, my favorite purchase of the evening was a simple nativity made of wood. It has all the essential characters. I immediately put it up on the mantle. It is not ornate and no color except the golden star above the Savior. I am drawn to it. It sits right next to the television. I will admit I don’t watch much T.V. anymore. However, during this season, it is all about creating the perfect Christmas. The perfect Christmas has already come and gone. Its depiction right next to a larger than life Samsung with millions of dollars in advertising telling me what I need and creating new wants. God’s ways are higher than our ways. I wonder if He placed that little reminder right in front of me to keep my eyes on the One who created me and gave me the greatest gift of all time.
Psalm 119:37 (NIV) Turn my eyes from worthless things, preserve my life according to your word.
This is my prayer for the month of December. I want to be present. I want to stay fully engaged in celebrating the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. The Wonderful Counselor, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace. I want to keep my eyes on what matters including love, joy and peace. Not the worthless things that cause so much stress and anxiety. The Lord has given me a gift worth sharing. It doesn’t matter if I throw the greatest Christmas party every thrown or have mounds of gifts underneath the tree. Who knows? My desire to meet every single want of my husband and children might be a hindrance more than a blessing as they look for lesser things rather than pursuing the Presence of God as Provider and Satisfier.
Matthew 6:21-23 (NIV) For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are healthy, your whole body will be full of light. But if your eyes are unhealthy, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light within you is darkness, how great is that darkness!
As believers begin to prepare for one of the busiest seasons in the church, it would be beneficial to clean the lens of our heart. The eye is the lamp of the body. It perceives things according to light. If we fix our eyes on Jesus who is the Author and Finisher of our faith – this may be the best Christmas yet. It doesn’t revolve around a perfect presentations, plentiful parties or a plethora of presents. To fill our eyes with the Light of His Love that reveals and removes any darkness in our heart – no matter how small and insignificant. To put our full expectation in the Lord and not the “things” around us. To walk by faith means to see things through the unseen reality of faith which is only logical through God’s Word…the same word that came wrapped as a baby lying in a manger.
For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. I have so much to be thankful for. God has been better to me than I could ever deserve. He has given me a loving husband who is an excellent partner and wonderful father. He has filled our house with children and even delivered them from death. When the enemy came to steal, kill and destroy us – He was our Protector, Provider and Healer. Looking around our house, we are more than provided for but abundantly blessed. The future even has promise in the birth of our first grandchild early next year. God has been faithful. His Son has given us confident hope. My treasure is in Heaven. His Blessings poured out to me on earth.
I must keep my eyes on Jesus this holiday season. To overcome years even decades of depression and anxiety during this time of year would be a declaration of faith in God and appropriate proclamation of the birth of His Son. His only son who brought hope to all mankind in his arrival. If you suffer from holiday stress, anxiety and depression, I invite you to join me. Put a tiny manger in full view. In a place, where you will see it and it will remind you that you have hope. Hope that is realistic that will produce love, joy and peace in abundance as you learn to trust Him more. God is a good father. He will never let you down those who put their faith, trust and confidence in Him. Release those heavy weights and burdens that do not belong to you and take on the yoke of partnership with Christ.
Lord, I ask you today to remove the scales from my eyes. Let the Light of Your Love permeate the darkness that threatens my heart this time of year. May those who share the same symptoms have a Saul-like experience (Acts 9:17-19) with me. Fill us anew with Your Spirit, Lord. Renew us with love, joy and peace in our salvation all over again. Let us see you in this season of rushing and create stillness in us to celebrate the greatest gift ever given – it’s You, Jesus, all you!
I John 3:1 (NIV) See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!