2 Thessalonians 3:5 (ESV) May the Lord direct your hearts to the love of God and to the steadfastness of Christ.
The word “love” is cast about so flippantly. “Love you” ends our texts and talks but do we really love the person who we just claimed to? Do we love them with the same definition of love set forth in God’s Word? Do we love others patiently, kindly, without envy or boasting, and never with arrogance, pride or rudely? Love gives up its own way with disregard for our own plans and personal agendas. It is not irritable and does not hold resentment in the basement of its heart. It doesn’t rejoice in anyone’s failure and always rejoices in the truth which displaces vengeance and malice from us. The Truth is that God is love and to be one with Christ means to embrace His Steadfast Love and extend it to everyone who is in our sphere of influence. The hula hoop around us that touches the edge of others within arm’s length are the ones I am called to love. Love like God and Jesus. Lord, help me most days to find it within me to do so. Finally the steadfastness of love is that it bears all things, believes all things, hoes all things and endures all things. Love is hard. Love is God. It is our position in Christ to love always.
I Corinthians 13:8 (ESV) Love never ends.
Love never ends. If you really love someone, there is not end to it. Ugh! So many times love is an emotion not a commitment. The staggering divorce rate is proof that the overture of feelings never got through to the center of our heart. Love is commitment. It is messy. It is hard. It takes advantage of our pride. It hurts our feelings. It is not always easy to really love other people but it is only from a heart set on the Father following the steadfastness of the Son that can carry on the family tradition of true love. To love like God and Jesus is a difficult process but worth it to be one with the Lord and His Spirit.
Galatians 5:22-23 (ESV) But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
Love is produced by the Holy Spirit. I have wonderful news for believers today. Even though agape love doesn’t come naturally, the Lord has given us His Spirit to produce it supernaturally. The more invested our faith becomes in pursing the Kingdom the greater the production of love in our life. We learn to love from the Holy Spirit who takes seeds of faith placed in us at creation and cultivates love in us that is from the Father. It doesn’t come naturally. Love is not an emotion. Love is a commitment. By committing our life including our heart, mind and soul to Jesus Christ, it allows love – His Love – to grow in us. If anyone has every planted a garden, then you know it may take a season or two or ten for good fruit to grow but if we are patient it will come.
I Timothy 6:11-12 (ESV) But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called and about which you made the good confession in the presence of many witnesses.
Love is a pursuit. To fight the good fight of faith often means fighting our feelings and emotions to believe. The starting point of believing for a Christian is to believe that God is love. To believe that He loves us no matter what. To believe that Christ is the Way, Truth and Life of love in us and through us. To put all of our expectation in God’s Love allows us to love others without the need for reciprocation because we are fully invested in the Kingdom and producing enough love to sustain us. Taking hold of eternal life means accepting that His Love is unconditional which means I am indebted to the Lord always and forever. The blessing of the Lord comes with no sorrow added. He says the only thing we owe anything is love.
Philemon 4-6 (ESV) I thank my God always when I remember you in my prayers, because I hear of your love and of the faith that you have toward the Lord Jesus and for all the saints, and I pray that the sharing of your faith may become effective for the full knowledge of every good thing that is in us for the sake of Christ.
Paul wrote to Philemon, his sister, Archippus (our fellow soldier) and the church in your house. Paul commended them on their love and faith toward Jesus and for all the saints. How do you share your faith in Christ? There is no more effective gospel than the one that is written. The one that tells of a God who loved us so much that He gave His Only Son, to live in love with us. What is the love letter of your life? The Gospel spoken will never have the impact of good news lived. A life of unconditional love is not our natural. But as I learn to lay down my life and let Christ make a new creation it includes a capacity to love that I did not have before. To release human expectation to fulfillment and satisfaction that only can be established in faith and confident hope. It is worth it. It takes time. I must ask myself is the “church in my house” like a city on the hill that beacons others to Christ when I am not “in” church or around other Christians. There is not greater love than to lay one’s life down for a friend. In Christ, we have only one enemy. The one who tries to destroy every relationship in our life. Love always. It is the ultimate example of God’s Love in us and the steadfastness of Christ working in us to change us from the inside out. A prospering soul learns to love always.
John 3:16 (ESV) For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.
Galatians 2:20 (ESV) I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.
I John 4:9-11 (ESV) In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.